tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post115725099279529183..comments2024-03-14T03:16:23.482-05:00Comments on Everyone Needs Therapy: Being insane, college, and defining normaltherapydochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-70029800742401982812011-04-10T22:38:46.455-05:002011-04-10T22:38:46.455-05:00Im just catching up on umm...everything, because a...Im just catching up on umm...everything, because all of these posts are so interesting. <br /><br />You forgot to mention, college is where the very fit children with overbearing parents pig out on junk food, and gain lots of weight. <br /><br />I find it interesting that all the things I said 'no' to when I was 14 I said yes to the moment I went off to college. Except for drugs, I valued my brain too much, especially since 2 years of college pretty much ruined my looks. You get tired of it though, the partying and random hookups. Some people hit a ceiling where all they do is wish that they could stop being dependant on their parents and actually start an independant life.Eva Lee Najubezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03529502821568490472noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-91032987592804029842009-12-07T01:15:57.091-06:002009-12-07T01:15:57.091-06:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Term Papershttp://www.ghostpapers.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-4613906685993201142009-11-05T22:49:30.149-06:002009-11-05T22:49:30.149-06:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-80897172183523719442008-10-20T12:20:00.000-05:002008-10-20T12:20:00.000-05:00Yes, dear. It does. Sorry.Yes, dear. It does. Sorry.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-74741212063290012782008-10-20T10:04:00.000-05:002008-10-20T10:04:00.000-05:00Sorry to bring you back to such an old post - I am...Sorry to bring you back to such an old post - I am still catching up. This is EXACTLY what I'm working on right now with my therapist so I must have been meant to find this post now. As my own daughters head into their teen years, I'm struggling to find that balance between taking responsibility for my own absolutely WILD behavior between 14-20 yrs old, and knowing that my view of the world, and of myself, was heavily impacted by a few years of violent sexual abuse that started when I was 13. Must everything be so hard? <BR/><BR/>Thanks for the post - it's helpful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-29271818661011667522008-01-25T15:59:00.000-06:002008-01-25T15:59:00.000-06:00In many states, if She says He raped her and they ...In many states, if She says He raped her and they were both drunk? He's in trouble. That's the No means No law.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-19756153410400389612008-01-25T14:23:00.000-06:002008-01-25T14:23:00.000-06:00(As an aside, if a person "consents" to sex while ...<I>(As an aside, if a person "consents" to sex while being under the influence it is not legally considered informed consent. Technically it's rape)</I><BR/><BR/>Forgive me for commenting on such an old post, but can this really be a valid legal principle when stated so generally? It would classify two intoxicated people who mutually consent to sex as being both simultaneously the raped and the raper.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-77987781529562045702007-03-15T16:32:00.000-05:002007-03-15T16:32:00.000-05:00Your welcome. I'll put this one up on the blog ne...Your welcome. I'll put this one up on the blog next week, probably as a question/answer thing.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-56078682479376458632007-03-15T10:10:00.000-05:002007-03-15T10:10:00.000-05:00Still catching up on old posts...but this one has ...Still catching up on old posts...but this one has me curious and hope you have a few moments to answer a question.<BR/><BR/>If, at one of the hierarchy 'mileposts', something jarring happens...are the balance of developmental tasks impossible?<BR/><BR/>Thanks for taking the time to teach and endure these questions.linrob63https://www.blogger.com/profile/07121577698838071322noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-1157288074176857892006-09-03T07:54:00.000-05:002006-09-03T07:54:00.000-05:00You're way up there on the learning curve. Life i...You're way up there on the learning curve. Life is easier, right, without all the bad choices? Good luck in everything you do, T.D.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-1157257603300964192006-09-02T23:26:00.000-05:002006-09-02T23:26:00.000-05:00I really like what you had to say about taking on ...I really like what you had to say about taking on responsability by saying "no" to something. One of my biggest challenges in life was saying "no" to the drinking, drugs, parties, and meaningless sex. I think that is when we really begin to step up to the plate and become adults. I am 20 and a mother now, and I must say I am a very different person that I was 2 or 3 year ago. I'm still learning though :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com