tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post3950825212274313714..comments2024-03-14T03:16:23.482-05:00Comments on Everyone Needs Therapy: The Working Datetherapydochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-66281275085279669302007-06-30T10:41:00.000-05:002007-06-30T10:41:00.000-05:00Wouldn't you say that people learn the fine art of...Wouldn't you say that people learn the fine art of intimacy in their family of origin -- and that the laptop is just the modern version of whatever obstacles to intimacy existed in the era of our parents, or our grandparents, or our great-grandparents? Lack of intimacy in relationships is not a new phenomenon... but now we have way cool technologies to hide behind.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-16865002910570767432007-06-29T21:13:00.000-05:002007-06-29T21:13:00.000-05:00I have to say that I love my work, and sometimes I...I have to say that I love my work, and sometimes I feel like I live for my work. Endless source of intellectual stimulation, humility, connection with people, amusement, great stories, etc.<BR/><BR/>However, I don't think I would want to do dates that involve work. I have this recurring fantasy that one day there's going to be something in my life in addition to work, and well, to work during a date seems counterproductive to that goal. <BR/><BR/>By the way, nice blog you have here! :)Midwife with a Knifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04309579302399381913noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-54813198479527639292007-06-29T21:10:00.000-05:002007-06-29T21:10:00.000-05:00Hear! Hear! Two thumbs up! As in two people togeth...Hear! Hear! Two thumbs up! As in two people together each putting one thumb up.<BR/><BR/>In other words, I couldn't agree more.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-49449762119645808492007-06-29T09:25:00.000-05:002007-06-29T09:25:00.000-05:00I heard this somewhere in a woman's magazine, oh, ...I heard this somewhere in a woman's magazine, oh, at least 16 or 17 years ago and I feel they are words to live by: "Don't be with someone you can live with, be with someone you can't live without." <BR/><BR/>I accept the rules may have changed - i.e., maybe having the PC there gives content they can talk about - but without some effort this could be a huge block to trust and intimacy. It's very easy to hide behind a screen...Swanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207040471490787092noreply@blogger.com