tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post5937833054822496346..comments2024-03-14T03:16:23.482-05:00Comments on Everyone Needs Therapy: Humble Requesttherapydochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comBlogger80125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-35719523052351462112009-10-06T03:52:43.050-05:002009-10-06T03:52:43.050-05:00I'm a little late on this, but am surprised no...I'm a little late on this, but am surprised no one mentioned the films Lolita (either version, but the 1997 release was especially disturbing to me) or American Beauty. <br /><br />Notes On A Scandal is another good one of the teacher-student variety.The Daily Bhttp://www.thedailyb.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-19257348552584677362009-10-02T17:14:34.218-05:002009-10-02T17:14:34.218-05:00Many movies by Pedro Almodovar - Mala Educacion an...Many movies by Pedro Almodovar - Mala Educacion and Volver to name a few.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-49315330726111220152009-09-25T20:27:38.420-05:002009-09-25T20:27:38.420-05:00unfornaturely the mamas and papas have in the news...unfornaturely the mamas and papas have in the news for years of abuse and incest of their daugther --also no one mention pearl jame defineing abuse song Jeremy !Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-12723028313057853772009-09-24T21:05:50.690-05:002009-09-24T21:05:50.690-05:00Janie's got a Gun, by Aerosmith.
Also just ab...Janie's got a Gun, by Aerosmith.<br /><br />Also just about anything by the Mamas and the PapasRonaldnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-85812038462994300572009-09-23T21:10:40.479-05:002009-09-23T21:10:40.479-05:00Sfordinarygirl, it's therapydocatgmaildotcomSfordinarygirl, it's therapydocatgmaildotcomtherapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-38561426213953818942009-09-23T11:28:18.892-05:002009-09-23T11:28:18.892-05:00Boys Don't CryBoys Don't CryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-73424407215925298432009-09-22T21:35:03.838-05:002009-09-22T21:35:03.838-05:00Where is my head?! Can't believe I forgot to m...Where is my head?! Can't believe I forgot to mention Bastard Out of Carolina. Jenna Elfman really should have gotten an academy award for this performance. It's gut wrenching but it deals with it all powerfully well and accurately. V. much not something I'd recommend to you had you not asked, Doc. It's intensely confronting, the layered subtext of violence, confrontation and betrayal is breathtaking. Often very literally.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-11217832081870133502009-09-22T21:27:20.619-05:002009-09-22T21:27:20.619-05:00there's the classic and at the time rather con...there's the classic and at the time rather controversial Simpson's babysitter episode:<br /><br />http://tinyurl.com/kj8p7g<br /><br />Also, can't forget Southpark's Sexual Harassment Panda: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N_yrBLepHiQ<br /><br />And the brilliant movie, The Witches of Eastwick. I can't think of any much more on target than that one. <br /><br />Also the first Legally Blonde movie deals with sexual harassment/coercion/power quite well (strange as it may sound).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-15909567644913991942009-09-22T14:00:07.911-05:002009-09-22T14:00:07.911-05:00Plumb- Damaged
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQB...Plumb- Damaged<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KQBbxt6mfXg<br /><br />Also does another song called Cut that is relevent. She's talked pretty openly about her past that caused her to write these songs.Valcorishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05069680238083008247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-20698354860067209672009-09-22T10:09:22.507-05:002009-09-22T10:09:22.507-05:00the movie - "The Accused" - with Jodi Fo...the movie - "The Accused" - with Jodi FosterAnnienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-5803957245941186832009-09-22T01:10:05.939-05:002009-09-22T01:10:05.939-05:00if it hasn't already been suggested (too many ...if it hasn't already been suggested (too many comments to read through) "better man" by pearl jam.<br />here is a vid:<br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9lUj9zWwop8Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-68493497635189621922009-09-21T17:19:38.469-05:002009-09-21T17:19:38.469-05:00The teacher thing is NEVER okay. And I hardly eve...The teacher thing is NEVER okay. And I hardly ever use never. The hierarchy, the power, translates to coercion.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-12475105628983329142009-09-21T15:08:41.617-05:002009-09-21T15:08:41.617-05:00I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Maya Angelou (chi...I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, Maya Angelou (child sexual abuse) - it's a short memoir, beautiful book.Ellenhttp://www.shyandblue.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-40929315414162745612009-09-21T14:26:45.144-05:002009-09-21T14:26:45.144-05:00The Police "Don't Stand So Close to Me&qu...The Police "Don't Stand So Close to Me" - kind of set the tone for the 80's culture in which a teacher tells me I'm so hot, kisses me...I actually played this for my T last session, remind him of what it was like then...<br /><br />Van Halen "Hot for Teacher" - but it's OK if you are a boy and the teacher is female?<br /><br />Later, it was "Teacher" by George Michael.Ellanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-40109540324982039212009-09-21T13:42:13.591-05:002009-09-21T13:42:13.591-05:00Someone already mentioned it, but I want to mentio...Someone already mentioned it, but I want to mention it again because it's SO amazing.<br /><br />"Gratitude," by Ani Difranco. It makes me cry every time.<br /><br />Also, "Me and a Gun" by Tori Amos.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-27750384053445683862009-09-21T09:28:09.715-05:002009-09-21T09:28:09.715-05:00"Only Women Bleed" by Alice Cooper"Only Women Bleed" by Alice CooperAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-35724706894611467652009-09-21T04:07:18.898-05:002009-09-21T04:07:18.898-05:00Wow, am I ever late to the party.
Amy Grant has a...Wow, am I ever late to the party.<br /><br />Amy Grant has a song called "Ask Me" specifically about sexual abuse which asks the question, "Where was God in all of this mess?"cardiogirl @ cardiogirl.nethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01322965001273835193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-39085844287799092272009-09-20T20:02:14.913-05:002009-09-20T20:02:14.913-05:00The Dark I Know Well from the musical Spring Awake...The Dark I Know Well from the musical Spring Awakening. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ON2I21zJa40<br /><br />Its about sexual abuse/incest.Amy Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17250947498392817482noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-62556328753400570062009-09-20T19:39:56.410-05:002009-09-20T19:39:56.410-05:00This is going to take me awhile to read, listen, s...This is going to take me awhile to read, listen, see. Thanks so much to all of you, again and again.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-85746419363604275922009-09-20T14:58:24.991-05:002009-09-20T14:58:24.991-05:00Oh, I forgot to add Agnieszka Holland's film &...Oh, I forgot to add Agnieszka Holland's film 'Angry Harvest'. Against the backdrop of the Holocaust, it explores the imbalance of power between a Catholic farmer and the Jewish woman he "shelters" from the Nazis. This is one of those artsy-fartsy films - of the sort that make the rounds of smaller independent theaters. But if you are building a library of DVDs with imbedded themes of sexual power/exploitation/manipulation, this one is rife with examples that are, unfortunately, as relevant today as seventy years ago. Sad face.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-7101319731567741192009-09-19T22:56:03.717-05:002009-09-19T22:56:03.717-05:00Oh yes, I love the Anthony Hopkins version of Titu...Oh yes, I love the Anthony Hopkins version of Titus. Because Titus is so violent, some have argued that Shakespeare could not have written it. The rape of the main female character Lavinia is based on a classical story in Ovid. One terribly shocking part of Titus that also takes place in classical stories about rape is the father's (or another man's) killing of the daughter due to his shame over her being raped (so patriarchal). Rape narratives have a long history in Western literature.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-51000324885382298502009-09-19T22:48:59.719-05:002009-09-19T22:48:59.719-05:00The Accused ...starring Jodi FosterThe Accused ...starring Jodi FosterDreaming againhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15717590226520457326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-80266901507464065792009-09-19T22:30:32.829-05:002009-09-19T22:30:32.829-05:00So long as we have hit on Shakespeare, Titus Andro...So long as we have hit on Shakespeare, Titus Andronicus or the film version Titus with Anthony Hopkins...though the violence is horrific. Was his first play, I think.cordeliadarwinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13370483145632040897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-20103099869124601342009-09-19T19:14:05.932-05:002009-09-19T19:14:05.932-05:00Heading out, so no time to read all of these posts...Heading out, so no time to read all of these posts, but I saw the one on Othello, and I second that one. (I would - I am A.B.D. with a specialization in the English Renaissance). At the end, Desdemona takes on the blame for the abuse so that when she is asked who has killed her, she says "Nobody; I myself." It's very powerful. <br /><br />Other than that, several years back, I watched a decent film with Charlize Theron about sexual harassment in the workplace called North Country. My computer is not pasting the website address, but google it; I think it's a quality film. <br /><br />J.P.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-68726511174916219192009-09-19T08:11:53.040-05:002009-09-19T08:11:53.040-05:00Would pretty women work? vivian seemed to be the t...Would pretty women work? vivian seemed to be the type to exert sexual power in a relationship.<br /><br />not related to your blog post, can I email you for a therapy doctor referral? I can't find your email on your blog. thanks!sfordinarygirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00499389971688978268noreply@blogger.com