tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post8123161992660023812..comments2024-03-14T03:16:23.482-05:00Comments on Everyone Needs Therapy: Secrets and Therapytherapydochttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-71930794127084624442007-10-19T11:04:00.000-05:002007-10-19T11:04:00.000-05:00you have got a thought-provoking blog out here.@in...you have got a thought-provoking blog out here.<BR/>@<A HREF="http://www.healthismoney.blogspot.com" REL="nofollow">interesting health articles</A>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-42064105736220613432007-10-15T18:21:00.000-05:002007-10-15T18:21:00.000-05:00Secrets create a certain mist, like a fog. You th...Secrets create a certain mist, like a fog. You think you see something, but you can't make it out. <BR/><BR/>Kids can handle reality, is the point. They go right back to what they were doing when they can file it all away intelligibly.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-38316767799313607552007-10-15T17:03:00.000-05:002007-10-15T17:03:00.000-05:00When I was 33, my mom told me she had briefly been...When I was 33, my mom told me she had briefly been married before she met and married my dad. My dad knew about it, but his parents didn't (& died never knowing this secret.) I remember thinking when she told me that I wish I had known that secret a lot earlier because it would have made the dynamics of our family a lot more understandable.doctor ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13258026677232775071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-2898410848619508712007-10-14T17:44:00.000-05:002007-10-14T17:44:00.000-05:00Perfect example of how and why this kind of revela...Perfect example of how and why this kind of revelation needs to be thought out ahead of time.<BR/><BR/>Thanks for sharing it with us.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-56883701841226499602007-10-14T17:40:00.000-05:002007-10-14T17:40:00.000-05:00The reason Bree is pretending to be pregnant is be...The reason Bree is pretending to be pregnant is because her teenage daughter is pregnant. So they're hiding the daughter, and when the baby is born, they will pretend it is Bree's baby. <BR/>I love your post, by the way. When I was 15, out of nowhere, my mother blurted out to me that she had been married once before. I had NO idea and was so astounded I remember crying just from the shock of it. Part of the problem was how she told me (In the car one day, really out of nowhere) and we didnt have such a close relationship to begin with. To this day I still feel uncomfortable asking her questions about it. (I am in my 20's). I'm so glad she told me, but it was painful, which doesn't really make sense because the marriage had been 25 years beforehand and didn't really affect me. I think it was so painful because it was really the first time she had confided in me, or made any sort of "close relationship" move, and it was a BIG secret to start off with. I think it would have been less painful if we had had a close, honest relationship beforehand.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-27851013122129893382007-10-13T19:08:00.000-05:002007-10-13T19:08:00.000-05:00You know, I'm not sure that I do. I really should...You know, I'm not sure that I do. I really should, right? Okay. One day. I'm not the greatest with requests, pretty much go where the spirit moves me, but I'll keep it in mind. Thanks.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-82123802622779284222007-10-13T13:26:00.000-05:002007-10-13T13:26:00.000-05:00Do you have any posts on emotional incest? I woul...Do you have any posts on emotional incest? I would love to read them and any additional thoughts you have on the subject. I know I was incested in this way, and God love them, they still do it, even though they are now in their 80's. Love your blog, btw.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-63089845537185311182007-10-12T16:30:00.000-05:002007-10-12T16:30:00.000-05:00To answer that, I'd need a lot more information. ...To answer that, I'd need a lot more information. If there was/is no shame associated with those behaviors that could indicate an understanding of where they came from, which would probably have come from good therapy.<BR/><BR/>I'd definitely consult my local family therapist before talking to my kids in that case. It's not even a maybe. It's a definitely.therapydochttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088184676439578876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-27072566.post-50161718831106526792007-10-12T15:54:00.000-05:002007-10-12T15:54:00.000-05:00"smoked, drank, shot up, slept around..."What if y..."smoked, drank, shot up, slept around..."<BR/><BR/>What if you did all of those things and it didn't make you feel worse, it made you feel good? What do we tell our kids then?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com