Conflict resolution- If you win, you lose

Not exactly Problem Solving Intimacy but you step into the same territory. I indicate in the recreational intimacy post that the actual process of solving problems is so powerful that it is really emotionally intimate in the end. Getting to the end, of course, is a big kettle of fish that I'll talk about some other time. For now, think of it this way. If you win, you lose. Let me know why you agree or disagree in the comments section below.